js- I'm so sorry that we're all in the same boat. It's so sad I know what you mean about the kids not really missing Daddy. My girls are really well adjusted considering the situation. They are young though. They ask where Daddy is sometimes but they are really happy, well behaved kids overall.
I'm struggling today. I spoke to my gf who spoke to my H one night when I was out and she called my house to talk to me. Anyway, she's divorced and they got on the subject of our sitch. He told her that he got a glimpse of how good it could be with the OW. Just made me sick. I'm having a hard time today. Why on earth am I fighting for a marriage with a man who has no qualms in putting himself over his family. Seriously, our d's adoption is not even final yet. How screwed up is that?? And here I am attempting to find a marriage counselor. My H has already proven himself a liar, a cheat (x2 that I know of) and not the family man I thought he was. What on earth am I fighting for?
Me 37 H 41 2-dd's (2,3) T-14 M-10 D-Day 6/18/09 (MOW ended their brief "love" affair a few weeks later) Separated- 7/3/09
I know what you mean about the kids not really missing Daddy. My girls are really well adjusted considering the situation. They are young though. They ask where Daddy is sometimes but they are really happy, well behaved kids overall. 