Save my marriage to w she is moving on

[TrentC]

Dont you think I would like to be secure? Of course and I will bounce back but I always believed in good times and bad.
So if things go bad its okay to jump off the boat?

You know, if you're asking your wife questions like this, I can see why it'd be hard for her to want to come back.

You are right to be hurt and angry and confused. But you have to understand that she is hurting, too.

All of this badgering makes you look whiny and judgmental, which is death to trying to get a walkaway spouse to stay.