Well need some advice here...

Halloween I told exh it was ok for him to join us. We are going to a little party for a few hours and then maybe hit a few houses trick or treating.

Yesterday when he was here baby wanted almost nothing to do with him. She kept saying Mommy and wanting me to hold her. If I left the room she cried. I can tell he was getting frustrated.

Anyway last night he was texting about something random and then asked our plans for Tgiving. I said I didn't know but would probably do the usual going to my moms. He said his brother and wife (the ones I really like) and his other girls and sister are having Tgivng at his house and wanted us to join them for awhile. Now I realize he isn't asking ME to come, just baby, but obviously right now her and I are a package deal. I said I wasn't sure of the plans but I will make time for him to see baby.

What do I do?

Last night baby started getting sick. When he textd goodnight I told him she wasn't feeling well..it ended up in a conversation about how he wants his family back and is sooooo unhappy. I said he continues to have the same addictive behaviors as well as women. How can he say that?


Me: 46 FWS: 36
Married and Divorced 4/07, Pregnant 7/07,False R 7/07
Baby Girl born 3/08
Kicked him out because OW: 7/08
5/10 He realized what he had and lost.
Moved home! REMARRIED 3/14/11!!