Went to the bank where my W and I have a joint account (setup only a month or so before we separated).
My W has changed the address for where the statements for the account have to go, and her own address (which is obviously fine), however she has left it open. Account is not used (last used in August) so can't understand why on earth she just didn't close it rather than change the address on it.
Anyway, I closed the account today. She *may* receive a letter confirming this (although they were not sure) but it will disappear from her online banking anyway. Another small but positive step for me taking a bit of control back.
One thing - should I tell me W that it's been closed (bear in mind there was nothing in it other than �1.16) or should I just leave it for her to find out. I don't think she'd tell me. if the show was on the other foot.
Me 36, W 34 | D 8 | M 3.5y Sep 2Aug09 | Left 6Sep09 | OM in 10Oct09 | NC 17Nov09 | Gave up caring - Jan 2010
"Have integrity. Do what is right, not what is expedient." "Delay is the antidote for anger"
