Originally Posted By: HurtButHopeful
I am pretty sure she will see OM tomorrow night and she is always more stressed around me right before and right after being with him. Having a hard time understanding if her attitude is due to indifference towards me or if it means that she is conflicted.


It could be conflict.

It could be guilt because she knows she's not getting to sneak around behind your back any more, so that part of the fantasy is gone.


Me: 44, Wife: 39
M: 17 years T: 20 years
Bomb on 08/25/09
1/13/10: MC started
1/28/10, 2/8/10: More bombs
8/28/10: Wife moved out
No talk of D, no movement

"Every day is another chance to get it right."