Originally Posted By: godswill
I also get so confused on how she can not see that there is something for her to work on. That maybe some of my "checking out" is reactionary to her inputs.


The only way you can make her see that is to take yourself out of the equation. Maybe when you're not talking to her about the R and out getting a life, and she's still unhappy, she'll begin to question things.

Originally Posted By: godswill
I also wanted to apolagize for hijacking your thread - thank you for your help and thoughts!


Looking forward to your thread... smile

Me: 44, Wife: 39
M: 17 years T: 20 years
Bomb on 08/25/09
1/13/10: MC started
1/28/10, 2/8/10: More bombs
8/28/10: Wife moved out
No talk of D, no movement

"Every day is another chance to get it right."