Our conversation this morning:

W:Hey bring their costume with u and I'll come pick it up after work and also can you buy some daipers for her because I don't have any money and she is almost out and I don't get paid till friday

M:Tristans costume is not done yet. I will drop them off tomorrow. And you don't have any money at all? Which friday this friday or next friday?

w:2morrow I get paid so are we talking them trick or treating? You never answered my text from yesterday?

m:W, I definitly want to take our kids together with you to go trick or treating, but I only want to go knowing you want me there. At first you said no and then you said lets make a deal. The deal is temping but I only want to come along knowing u want me there with you. Not so you can pawn me the kids that night so you can go do whatever.

w:No its fine we can take them and then you'll just have them for the night so I don't have to bring them back tomorrow morning.

M:So you want me to spend time with you and the kids then?

w:No with the kids not me, I just want us to be there for the kids and that's it. Not because I want you to spend time with me


I didn't respond after that. I feel like I'm doing something wrong? Is this a good thing or bad thing? way confused.


Me:27
W:24
S:2
D:9 months
M:3 years
Together for 8 years
Bombed : 6/11/09
Moved out: 6/27/09
Found out about her affair 9/7/09
(she started her's at 6/25/09)
Begged n plead 7/25/09
started DB 8/17/09