How do I handle my kids? I want full custody, but I don't want to do more damage to them fighting for them, if that makes sense. That would be a fight, one I know I could win based on my conversations with an attorney, but it would put much bitterness between she and I which is something I don't want my kids in the middle of. I also don't want them to have any contact at all with the OM. Its the rock/hard-place syndrome.
