Originally Posted By: Sad Girl
Tristan, are you back with her now?


Hmmm. Back together? Logistically, we are back in the same house. We hope to get all of the stuff moved out of her apartment this weekend. We have recommitted to our marriage. But damage has been done on both our sides, we both have a lot of repair work to do. We are definitely not back to where we were a couple of years ago. However, I think we both have a better, more mature, understanding of our relationship. I do believe we can build a much stronger marriage from this ordeal, but it will take a lot more time.

This is a long road. You will need plenty of patience. It is extremely hard. It was the most difficult time of my life. But if you do this properly, you will come out of it a much stronger person.


Me: 36, W: 33, M: 10 yrs
Bomb: 1/09, Seperated: 9/09, Piecing Begins: 10/09

My story: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubb...t=91&page=1