One last thing, rejoice ministries is a great site as long as people realize that they first have to change their life and relationship with God. To many people don't get this. Charlyne even says it from time to time.
Bottom line, detach, love God, strive to please God because you love God. Let him work the rest of your life out. You trust in him. Pray for your H to turn to God, not so that he will come back to you, so that he will save his own soul. It is a truly great sacrifice, but that is completely an unselfish thing to do. Do you trust God?
Kevin
Me 36, W 37 M: 08/02/97 D13, D9 1st Bomb 02/08 Reconciled 04/08 2nd Bomb: 09/08 W filed for D 02/04/09 Separated 03/09 D dismissed 06/09/09 Still separated...