Like So2, I don't know why they swing the way they do either, as you see in my thread, I'm at my own witts end over my X's sudden 'warming trend' again.
Maybe it is because of the holidays. I atleast got the first go-around for Thanksgiving this year, X gets x-mas eve and I have x-mas day, so it will be "somewhat normal" this year. Next year will be a crap shoot as it will all be reversed but we'll see what developes between now and then.
Try, as hard as I know it may be to not think too much into why she's acting as such and just let it roll.
Me 35/XW 33 S13 & S12 M: 10/17/98 OM & S: 07/08 D final 06/09/09 12/03/09 - 06/13/10 "Piercing" 06/13/10: Engaged to Re-marry 10/17/10 06/25/10: Expecting baby #3 2/14/11
