I was thinking of asking my parents to kick him out, should I?
I would give a little more consideration to this one. My W walked out on me with half our savings. She committed to a 12 month lease at a pretty nice place (rent was more than our mortgage) and spent cash to furnish it. A month later she was asking if she could come back. Did that help her wake up? It definitely did, but it was one he!! of an expensive alarm clock.