Not a good night/morning. The warmth referred to from the night before before has turned to anger. Communication is basically limited to "other than kids issues you'll need to go through my lawyer". She knows I'm prepared to work on the marriage. Thus, the favourite phrase that she knows will sting is: "We're getting a divorce. period". She's also taken to saying "I don't care what you think about when R with OM started etc...I don't give a rats ass that you don't believe me" It's not looking good!