Newbie (again)

[dday101798]

I want to but don't want stbx to think she can go out with OM and always count on me to take the kids.

Exactamundo! I've told her flat out, I miss having access to our kids on a daily basis as a parent should, however I will not have the desire of me to see my kids abused and refuse to be her babysitting service to go out and flolick with her OM (geuss he's technically not a OM anymore?). So, it's a double edge sword I guess.

We'll have to find you an apporpriate nickname tho, saying "VD" doesnt' seem good. lol