Dday that is awesome about the volunteer work, I hope you can get it going.
That's crap about not eating dinner till after 8:30, I feel bad for your kids.
Like you I have a hard time telling the kids I can't see them. I want to but don't want stbx to think she can go out with OM and always count on me to take the kids. But damn I miss them, I don't know what the right thing to do is.
Me:40 W: 39 T: 17 years M: 15 years S-9 D-6 D final 11/10/2009
"We are all faced with a series of great opportunities brilliantly disguised as insoluble problems."