Hi Julia, How are you? There is something different happening lately. H seems to want to be in contact. I took a risk to ask if I could phone next time. His positive response was not what I expected. And of course, If I suggest calling he could still very well say no.
He hasn't mentioned finances except today he said he had a massive mortgage. I was wanting to reply,"Well that was your choice" but instead I went for the more upbeat and said "I can only suggest you find yourself a wealthy and generous lover" He replied, "Prob need 2 or 3" The finance stuff is just on holiday. it will be back very soon, I imagine.
So now I need to think about my next contact. walks and texts have a tick, birthday dinner a cross. I might get him a lotto ticket as my contribution to his mortgage.