H decided to take a work at home/sick day because he's been fighting a cold or something all week, feels like f*** and not sleeping well. So I asked him- "What about tonight?" I don't feel like going I stayed positive- "Ok, we can do like I suggested last time. I'll go, and you can do a solo session next time if you want" (In a suspicious tone) Why are you so anxious to go by yourself? I just don't see a reason to waste a scheduled appointment. There's cans of soup in the pantry- see ya when I get home.
I think I'm glad he's not going- I do want some alone time with the MC.
The only thing you probably could have done differently would be:
You: "What about tonight?" Him: "I don't feel like going." You: "OK. Well, I'm going; see you later."
Let him decide if and when he wants to go.
Me: 44, Wife: 39 M: 17 years T: 20 years Bomb on 08/25/09 1/13/10: MC started 1/28/10, 2/8/10: More bombs 8/28/10: Wife moved out No talk of D, no movement