Heh, got a call from my sister's BF last night, friming up on some plans to get together Satruday night for a movie and a small outting afterward. Then out of nowhere I was hit a proposal of his to put together a community volunteer group for needy and broken family kids. Of course it hit hime and I agreed to hear his ideas over the weekend in more detail. I figure, if I can't get a paying second job to benefit me, I can atleast volunteer my time to benefit others, while keeping myself busy at the same time.
Then I heard from the boys. Both claim to want to be with me on Saturday. For the most, I believe that, however the underlying message sounds more like XW has her own plans for the night that doesn't involve them and was trying to dump them off somewhere on someone. I felt bad, told them of course I'd love them to be with me EVERYDAY, but that's not how it works. I got a little nasty I guess when both asked why they couldn't, my only response was "talk to your mother about that".
They were already aggravated with XW as it was. Once again 8:30 at night and they STILL hadn't eaten dinner yet. S11 is getting so concious about his weight. Last Friday all he got for dinner when we were out was a salad and soup. I reminded him that eating so late and going directly bed is not good for digestion. He also wanted me to e-mail his teachers becasu he couldn't find a disk to copy an essay he was working on off the laptop he was using and to make sure it was ok to bring the laptop to school. Apparently, instead of shelling out $2 for a new library card, this is XW's idea of an "easier" way. uggh.
Never talked to XW, o-well. Since the times I heard her in the background whe had an attitude to her tone, I don't think I would have wanted to anyway.
Side note, I told the boys their Halloween cards from my gram came in the mail yesterday. S12 wanted her number to call her when I said whe you OPEN them, don't forget to call her and say thanks. So he wanted to call her right away, but apparently XW deleted the number. Cute.
Me 35/XW 33 S13 & S12 M: 10/17/98 OM & S: 07/08 D final 06/09/09 12/03/09 - 06/13/10 "Piercing" 06/13/10: Engaged to Re-marry 10/17/10 06/25/10: Expecting baby #3 2/14/11
S11 is getting so concious about his weight. Last Friday all he got for dinner when we were out was a salad and soup. I reminded him that eating so late and going directly bed is not good for digestion. He also wanted me to e-mail his teachers becasu he couldn't find a disk to copy an essay he was working on off the laptop he was using and to make sure it was ok to bring the laptop to school. Apparently, instead of shelling out $2 for a new library card, this is XW's idea of an "easier" way. uggh.