Yes we are in the same house. The day I found out contact was resumed I moved him in another bedroom and have made it clear he will stay there until that is no longer the case, he commits to our marriage and is willing to do what it takes to re-earn trust (i.e. transparency). He, sadly, seems quite content to stay there and it seems to have just increased the secrecy. Now, when he actually IS home, he goes in there, shuts and locks the door with his cell phone and laptop. And I am supposed to believe he is "winding things down?" sheesh! Do I confront all this in MC session?