I also dont think people shoould stay together for the sake of the kids, but I didnt cheat,steal ,lie I wasnt abusive physically or emotionally and I dont understand beyond our financial troubles words such as I dont trust you and my heart is broken. What does that mean?
You can't trust anything she says right now, and only half of what she does.
She is still working on rationalizing her choice. The only way to make her rethink that choice right now is to not react the way she expects you to.
Me: 44, Wife: 39 M: 17 years T: 20 years Bomb on 08/25/09 1/13/10: MC started 1/28/10, 2/8/10: More bombs 8/28/10: Wife moved out No talk of D, no movement
