I will need to contact the WAW to see if she is still looking after her children tonight - or I will get my parents to look after them - but I am still going.
Good for you.
Originally Posted By: Gynandtonix
Perhaps she has gone dark b/c she doesn't know where I am going? Perhaps she has gone dark b/c she is racked with guilt from Monday evening? Perhaps she has gone dark b/c she is upset with me over Xmas and that I know she is not planning to be home for Xmas? Perhaps.......
Who cares?! I am trying to tell myself this, but it is difficult.
Yes. Mind-reading does not do you any good. And terribly difficult not to do. Accept that you have no idea what is going through their mind.
Try talking things over with a good friend. I found that helped. My W and I were very dim for a few weeks; I found out later that she was having a very difficult time with it and believed I was extremely angry with her. It was during this time that she realized how much she missed me.
