I should probably not butt in here but I really feel compelled to say this.
BBJ have you considered Divorce Care for yourself? You have healing to do and starting new opposite sex relationships (even platonic friendships) is not in your best interest right now.
I know it feels good to have someone pay attention to you and to have something to look forward to, but we all know that "what feels good" is not necessarily the right thing to do. Isn't that what our WAS have always done?
Please, I urge you to re-consider the dating (even the dating websites) right now.
I know this post will not be popular and that is okay... ignore it or slam away. I can take it.
Me 54 DS19 and DS17 Married 06/1989 Divorced 01/2011