What to do, what to do?

[LuLu]

.I mean the man never once told me he was unhappy until he walked out on me.

Same here. He told me the other day that I wouldn't have listened. Thanks for trying there buddy. Ughh!

Yes, he agreed to go to counseling. He says he'll go to IC as well, for the girls of course. He wanted me to set him up an IC appointment with someone but I just didn't feel right doing it for him.

As for moving back in, he didn't give me a specific date but we're going to work on the marriage. I'm kind of afraid if he moved back in right now that my db'ing would go to pot and we would be fighting. It's not like we're a couple. There are still plenty of awkward times. It's strange. You would think after 15 years it wouldn't be that way but it is. Sometimes I feel like he's a stranger and not the best friend he was. Sad really.