For those with a WAS...How do you cope?

[LuLu]

If you still want to try to make this work, you're going to have to have patience. Time, time, time. Stinks doesn't it? You've only been at this for a month and you are already noticing changes. Your sitch didn't happen overnight, unfortunately it's going to take a bit of time to come out of it.

I second Bluerain Re-read the DR.

By the way, people also thought we had a perfect marriage and my girlfriends thought I had such a great H. Boy were they shocked when all of this happened! Things aren't always what they seem at face value. Who knows, maybe her dh was trying hard to get himself out of the doghouse. Just sayin'.