Have gone back to this as my original thread. I understand starting too many makes things confusing. Where things are at now.... of course contact was resumed. Of course H didn't tell me, I confronted and he admitted. H claims they are "winding things down" and I supposed to be patient and let him do that on his own time frame. How I am supposed to be able to trust that, baffles my mind that he would even ask that of me. Still struggling with detaching. In terms of GALing.. I feel like one of us needs to be here for the kids, since H isn't much. They are teenagers... not like you can get a sitter! lol. But they need parental presence and right now that's me. So, I find it hard to do 180's and GAL when i am home most of the time in the evenings. We have a MC appointment on Friday. H says he is coming. We have had one so far, and it went ok. *sigh* do these sitches ever end... feels likes this will drag on forever and I am so tired...
