My story begins with a twist...

[Kemper]

Hey TrentC,

I wanted to read up on your thread since you posted on mine today. I second SpyBunny's question. How are things going with you?

I will tell you that I made a mistake of leaving the master bedroom a week after the bomb and moving into the guest room because I wanted to be nice to my W. However, I will say that after a long conversation (no arguement, just a disucssion) last night I am back in the master bedroom. I stated that if my W didn't want to be in the R/M then she shouldn't have all the luxury associated with being in a M.

I know your situation is a little different (e.g. medical) but I don't want you to look back like I did and kick yourself for "being the nice guy". Bottom line is we all contributed to the issues in our R/M. The difference is everyone on this forum is working on themselves to become better people and they have a strong interest in building a better R/M than they had before.