Gotta Keep Trying 2

[Kemper]

What is most interesting about reading that thread is seeing how comments that my W makes fits so well into that situation. A comment last night along the lines of so we should basically start our relationship all over again. I answered her with a yes because unless we can forgive and forget there are always going to be negative issues from the past that keep coming up.

I am not guilt free but the majority of the negative issues from the past are brought up by her. She just can't let them go or doesn't want to forgive/forget. It is interesting because she either starts a new relationship with me (the father of her children) or she has to do it anyway with someone else.

Maybe I am not getting the whole concept and should got to Wikipedia to brush up more. But I feel she is in the cycle of black/white and round and round.