Haven't posted in weeks. Nothing to say. I come on tonight, to just read... I see this.
Originally Posted By: SmileysPerson
Suggested that the brutal reality is that if Pleasure of Time With Kids > Pain Of Unavailable Wife, and you value TWK more that Time With Spouse, then the logical decision is: Stay for the kids.
Welcome to my world.
Originally Posted By: SmileysPerson
Which is a sucky choice to face.
Welcome to my sucky world.
Thinker:
You're being very brave. Congratulations for taking your own stand.
This definitely can be many spouses reasons for staying, but if the LBS can do what they need to do (Mindful, your one of them, and you'll get thru this like me too) that the WAS will realize how much they really DO love the LBS. If they ever loved you to marry you, believe me, it will/can happen. I truly believe my H didn't really love me and married me because we had a baby. But yet, he has fallen for me more now than ever. Don't give up.
Me 33 H 34 S9 S3 M 6 yrs (2gether 11 yrs) EA/PA 1/2006 DB 5/2006 H wants D 6/2006 H wants ME 8/2006 H "said" PA/EA over 8/2006 H erased OW off phone! 2/2007
"It is far better 2 choose humility & change oneself, than 2 wait in vain trying 2 chang someone else."
