Not wanting to be on this boat........

[Buffet]

So My wife just called and launched on me b/c i took my checkbook out of town with me. We have seperate accounts and always have. She wanted to pay the cleaning lady which has for the last 2 years that we have had her been 1 of 3 bills that my wife has to pay (I pay the other bills out of my account).
I asked her why it was a big deal since she is supposed to pay and she got incredibly angry and just said that I am a liar and I am trying to screw her over....
I asked about our son and if she wanted to discuss anything else she got mad again and I said I would see her tomorrow when i get home and hung up.
Seriously what is up with the CRAZY mood swings. She has never been like this but now at the drop of a hat she turns insane??
Also, what is the take on the checkbook, this has not been an issue before and she seems very upset about it...