Well said and thank you. I have been separated for 10 months and have not even considered dating. Lord knows I want the companionship, the affection etc. But I surely do not need the complication of another person in this situation, ESPECIALLY since I am seeking reconciliation.
If I didn't love my wife, or didn't care, of course I'd date. But I'm also concerned about the message I'd be sending my children. I personally just do not see dating as a consideration to anyone who is attempting to bust their divorce. It just seems so counter-productive.
Jim
M: 25 1/2 yrs Petition Filed: Dec 08 (by WAW) served: Jan 3, 09 Separated: 3/18/09 M: 49 W: 51 D 22 S's 14 & 16 Me: devastated & broken; W: hard and bitter
