Over the Shock and GALing 6

[ClingingToHope]

We each need to know that, but we need to do that for ourselves, it's not something we can do together.

Yes. Living arrangements may snap her out of it.

Right now my W is living in our old home, which is too big for her and the girls to keep up. She wants to sell and I agree. But there's no equity in it. We'll be lucky to get out without a loss.

She's been telling the girls they'll just "buy" a smaller house nearby.

But if we divorce, she's unlikely to have any money for a down payment and there's no such thing as 100 percent financing anymore.

So she doesn't realize yet that she's likely going to have to rent -- and then what do you do with the dog, the cat, the hamsters?

It'd be interesting to be in her head when she realizes that.