Newbie (again)

[MsMelancoly]

Sorry, no 2x4s from me. We all came here for our own reasons. Saving the M was top priority & then it moved down the list bit. I came here to find my sanity, find people that can understand & give support, overcome fear & control, find my own happiness and learn how to really make a M or R work. Hopefully, I've accomplished some of that.

I understand what you are saying about your XW. After D my XH told me he loved me & always would. I believe that, yet he is still lost. Some of the things he said when he left was true, I see that now. Just like you said, with your XW complaints. The sad part is, is my sitch they were very fixable, at the time. And, I know now, it was more than that, that was plaguing him. So now, I believe/understand, he doesn't want to get too close to me, for fear of being pulled back in. Make any sense? My journey continues to find my way, as I find it hard to let go too. In time it will happen & I will know I'm ready.

You are doing a good job - keep it up!