Save my marriage to w she is moving on

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Hey, So definitely not in the position to give advice. Slowly I feel as my situation progresses I may one day be able to help others out. But I read your situation and it is very similar to mine. The main part being that I also have a 1 and 3 year old. Sometimes I find it so unbearably hard to believe that somebody would want to take the opportunity of having a loving, caring family away from children so young. Now I don't agree with staying in a marriage for the children's sake, but I also don't agree with walking out without even trying. As far as I understand your situation that's what happened and that is definitely what happened in mine. My H woke up one day and decided he isn't happy and within a week left to stay with his sister. So basically I understand what you're going through, as I think we may be going through very similar things, and just wanted to let you know I'm here, and if you need someone to vent to that may know EXACTLY what your feeling then go for it. My H and I were in the middle of building a house when he left. hhhmmm...I too have days where I think "Do I really want to be with this person? How can you wake up one day and tell your spouse you love them and go finalize plans to build a new home together and the next day wake up and tell them you're unhappy and leaving?" I don't get it. Anyways, I'm here...