Another waw/mlc and I need support

[cyclone]

Here's a little more of my sitch and why ithinkthis is MLC and not WAW.

Morethan a year ago W starts talking about plastic surgury. Doesn't follow through with anyhing bu is starting to notice the wrinkles in the face. Tries dying her hair to look younger. Starts going to an ecstatic dance thing on Sunday afternoons and is hanging out with a people quite a bit younger than she. The dance thing expands to Wednesday nights also. I had always trusted her and so I didn't feel any need to check up on her.

She has been depressed for far longer than the past few years. PCP gave her some meds but she didn't like how they made her feel. A lot oF the household work fell on my shoulders as well as taking care of the kids. We don't have any family around so the vacations together have been short trips or things with the kids. Nothing just the two of us. That has to change if we ge back together.

The day before the bomb she goes out to a party until 3:15am. The next day I told her that I was concerned that she was putting herself on a slippery slope. That's when I get the bomb and the rewriting of history. She then starts taking about how she deserves to spend more money in herself. Everything becomes about her. She misses the kids sportig events to go to her dance group.

Shes been following the script. Does this sound like MLC or WAW? I've been acting like it's mlc.