WAS seeing reality?

[v1olin]

My wife saw some "reality" yesterday during our mediation. I have been telling her what I would be asking for from day one - joint custody including child support. So, the mediation lasted 4 hours and the only thing that got settled was an agreement on some of our property(a Wii , a twin bed and half of her 401k.) The custody, child support, and what to do with the house will be decided by a judge. Our court date is in January.

I went to the house last night with the kids like I have been for 5 months now and she was clearly in defense mode. She did not make eye contact, did not talk to me etc. etc. The she calls me today and says that when I drop the kids off after school I need to leave from now on. Now I get the feeling like Kimmie was right and she was playing nice for the last few weeks to get her way. Does she really think she has me wrapped around her finger like that??


So I am going to go talk to her tonight and give her nothing but compassion. I am going to cut her loose, set her free.