Can I save my marriage?

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I totally agree! I do think some people are addicted to the relationship. In my case, I'm not going to be naive, there definitely is a little bit of me that may love my life, having a husband and children and the whole perfect family is a huge addiction. But I also know I love my husband. I have loved him since the day I met him. We had a brief breakup in our dating years and I didn't ever quit loving the man. He is my dream come true. Not saying there isn't anybody else out there that could possibly fulfill this for me, because I do think that may be true. But I love my husband and don't want to even have to explore those options.

Good luck to you in your search. I fear for that day. But if it comes I look forward to being in the place you seem to be where you are okay with that and open to looking for that "other" special person to love in your lifetime. I will search for you and your experience knowledge should I ever get to that point. Thank you.