If she truly wants a divorce its not just from me its my entire family.
That's really their decision, but eventually as time goes on the separation will occur naturally.
In my W's case, she has few close friends left and she lives in a town where I have a lot of friends. So she keeps running into my friends. I haven't told them to be mean, I just let everyone know we are no longer together, and apparently she says she's been getting the cold shoulder.
Of course, a lot of things just happen in her head. If someone doesn't say hi to her with the appropriate cheerfulness she obsesses that they don't like her.
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