It seems like to them, coming back after making their decision gives up all their power in the relationship. Not sure how they can get past this, but they need to!
Yes, W probably has had the upper hand in our R since she first mentioned divorce five years ago.
Me: 47, Ds 17-13, D final 6-11 http://tinyurl.com/yk4e2tz http://tiny.cc/thread2 http://tinyurl.com/ydtphqu http://tinyurl.com/thread4 http://tinyurl.com/3sm78k6 http://tinyurl.com/thread6
