Anyone know where "Beautyme" is? I'm concerned about her post and the depression going untreated...I once had a woman client tell me her h was leaving her for his pregnant OW, after a 17 y/marriage in the military. She faced serious financial damage, a sudden move, single parenting, etc. She told me she wanted to "hurt their new baby like h had hurt their children" and it scared me. So...as tempting as it was, God knows, it's crucial to remember that
It's not our job to teach lessons to our spouses, predict life's consequences to our spouses, or punish our spouses, but to heal ourselves and protect our children. That's first. Not what the WAS does/thinks/feels b/c remember, we don't control that anyhow, AND life does all that for us...hence the focus being on our wellness and recovery and the whole GAL and detaching. Great thread here but seriously, I'm worried about that person's sitch. Anyone know her? j-
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
