She wants a divorce but she wants to have all the events that involve the kids revolve around my cousins? Im not sure I can act like thats okay. Any ideas?
When in doubt, say nothing. Tell her you need to think about it.
If she's talking about child custody issues, then you need to get a lawyer and discuss your options.
I'm not sure what your cousins have to do with anything...? Can you give us more background?
Me: 44, Wife: 39 M: 17 years T: 20 years Bomb on 08/25/09 1/13/10: MC started 1/28/10, 2/8/10: More bombs 8/28/10: Wife moved out No talk of D, no movement