Believe me Seren, this is harder than recovery from a stroke. I wouldn't wish this on my worst enemy.
In my first post, I stated that my W is honest. This is one thing I admire about her. I even asked her not too long ago if there was someone else. She angrily said 'You know me by now. You know I don't do those things. I honor my vows!'. I believe her, although I thought to myself that if she believed in our vows she wouldn't be doing this to us. My friends wonder if there is an OM because she goes out of town frequently for conferences. Maybe I'm naive because I'm the trusting type and unless I see otherwise, I will continue to count on her honesty because she hasn't shown me otherwise since we met.
