Thought I would just drop in here to update but I have been lurking around and posting on other threads.
All is still progressing along nicely but I am still very conscious of continuing to DB and not let things slip into old patterns again. Still doing the same things, maintaining appearance, going to the gym, doing things with friends (although I have backed it off a bit).
We have been doing more things together which has been really nice, feel like a normal couple again.
Had D's birthday on the weekend and S came home for that, it was nice going out for a family dinner which we have not done in so long I can't remember the last time.
H is really flat at the moment, stress of work is getting to him, so I am just trying to be supportive, looking after him etc.
We are looking to the future, buying the holiday house and planning a holiday to the US hopefully next year, I would love to go to New York, H would like to see Denver again. Any suggestions on other places we should see whilst we are there?
