Year 2...and still breathing!

[BeingMe]

Tell her you love her and then that you feel that becoming sexually active so young may not be the best way to go -- it may be detrimental to her health, her psychological wellbeing, her reputation (I know, everyone is doing, right?) etc. You can list all those reasons and more while trying to stay calm. Ask her if she has any questions and answer them as best you can. Let her know that this behaviour is not welcome in your homes because it sets a bad example for her younger sibling. Finally, commend her on the fact that she used condoms to protect her from unwanted pregnancy and VD.

Not an easy convo, that's for sure.