It doesn't matter- it's a moot point if we're just going to go our separate ways. He can go screw whoever he wants, whenever he wants, when he's on his own. (The ironic thing is that he had much better luck with other women when I was along for the ride and he knows it.) H is not going to accept responsibility for his share of our problems or look into his own issues anytime soon, so I'll continue the work with my IC to deal with it myself.
