And as far as the C's go, how about just saying, "My h coerced me into swinging. I hate it. I'VE ALWAYS HATED IT!! I WANT IT TO STOP, OK???
There. What is so hard about that?
She's right; counseling is no place to soft-pedal the issues you are facing.
Me: 44, Wife: 39 M: 17 years T: 20 years Bomb on 08/25/09 1/13/10: MC started 1/28/10, 2/8/10: More bombs 8/28/10: Wife moved out No talk of D, no movement
