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[awest1217]

Let me know about the other things. More than likely it will just be me and S2 so I need things that aren't too stressful because I want to relax as well.

I just set up our new cell phone online account so I can pay the bills, and H has been calling OW and texting her constantly since leaving. I just don't know if I can handle this anymore. I text and he doesn't answer. I don't answer him and he gets mad. After this weekend I need to go dark. Any ideas about how to stick to that? I can't keep allowing him to play family with us and saying he wants our marriage to work, but still have OW and talk to her more than me. He is so much more codependent on her than me, but he won't admit that. I am going to leave the Indy thing up to him and see if he comes. This is his last chance and if he says no without another suggestion, I am going to go by myself and just not talk to him anymore. His mail can pile up here and he can text all he wants. I just need to post everywhere...do not respond! Do NOT RESPOND! DO NOT ANSWER! I have to set my boundary and if he doesn't like it oh well, but he can't have two women, and not only ruin our family's lives, but also her marriage (her fault too).

So any other cheap ideas for Indy? I am probably only going to spend the night there and depending on if H goes, I might stay with some friends.