Slept with XH, help!!

[Augtan]

ok, been mia for a few days, just really busy getting S14 off to DC for his 8th grade trip. So much fun!

Cat..i am not dating, my XH just thinks I am, I haven't told him that, but haven't told him I'm not either. It's really none of his business. I really don't get caught up in what he is doing at all, as I have stressed before, it is impossible to do that, he is 700 miles away. But, I am here to vent and see what everyone thinks.

We did IM yesterday and it went really well, he told me he wishes we had never moved away and said he wishes he would have faught harder to make us stay (like fight in court). I told him that I am glad he didn't cause if he wasn't going to come home then it was a losing battle and he would have wasted his money. My family has a lot of money and would have given me all I needed to fight him, whereas he has no money and would have run up a huge bill with a lawyer and still lost. Cause in Georgia if you want to leave with reason you can, and I had tons of reasons. Plus, that would have forced us to hire a private eye which would have been horrible for him since Georgia is a fault state and we would have proved infidelity without a problem. So, anyway...I just ended it with "hang in there, your family isn't as far away as you think". He wanted to know whose house we were going to for Thanksgiving and said he would like to come up for that weekend. I just told him and that was it. Also, just to report, not cause it is any big deal, but the last two nights he has been at the bar and not at OW's house!! He told D10 when they talked. So, who knows. I really don't care if he is with her or not, my kids do care and it would be so much better and easier for them if he wasn't with her. But, I do not get my hopes up, in my mind they are together and happy as clams!! I told him from the beginning not to stay with her just to "save face" with me, that I would never say a word to him like "told you so, told you so" or anything!!

I am just sitting back and doing what I need to do, whatever happens is what God has planned for me. I have given it to God, that is all I can do, oh and work on me in the mean time.

Thanks everyone and hope things are going good for all of you.

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