I love you but not in love with you. Rewriting of history. You were controlling. Spending New friends
The same signs are from by a WAW. That is why it is hard to tell at first. To me, one of the symptoms that sets the MLC W apart from the WAW is how much age, youth, & appearance matters to them. They feel that time has either passed them by or been unkind to them or they missed their big break. They try to recapture their youth. I'm not just talking about getting a new wardrobe or a makeover. I'm talking about being obsessed with it to the point of getting depressed when they go to the mall b/c it seems all they see is stores and pictures having young models and youthful clothes. They start trying to dress as if a teenager (or at least in her 20's).....and behaves so silly trying to act youthful that it is embarrassing.
Men in MLC is just as bad. They come across as "dirty old men" b/c of how they dress & act.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!