I'm trying hard to keep from crying, I really thought we had a shot at fixing this. Just like a lot of other people here, I just don't understand why he's not happy with me, and I don't think I'm ever going to.
He's not happy with you because you have your own wants and feelings.
You don't want to share him with anyone else, and you don't want to be shared. Those are perfectly normal, healthy feelings.
Sadly, he'll probably find someone else who is willing to put up with his emotional abuse; there are always women who are attracted to men who make them feel unworthy of love or respect.
As for you? Take care of yourself. You have a long way to go before you'll be able to find someone who will love you and treat you as you deserve to be treated, but keep in mind that we'll always be here to listen to you.
Me: 44, Wife: 39 M: 17 years T: 20 years Bomb on 08/25/09 1/13/10: MC started 1/28/10, 2/8/10: More bombs 8/28/10: Wife moved out No talk of D, no movement
