Wow! I just went over to the "I'm thinking of leaving" forum and read a post by a WAW who is struggling with resentment over the fact that it took a bomb to wake her h up. Someone please 2 x 4 me if I ever do that again. I can't believe how much hope I just lost. One thing that confused me is that it appears that her h is acting "as if" and she is frustrated as to how he can act as if nothing is wrong. Feeling down and very confused right now. That post offered a good yet very humbling and painful view into the perspective of the WAS. I feel like I have been a terrible husband to not have noticed her reaching out to me when she did.
